3 Powerful Self-Love Spells

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Written By Muhammad Saad

I'm a psychologist dedicated to evidence-based research in psychology, covering diverse aspects of the field.

Self-love is important for well-being but often lacking in our society. Spells can help nurture it.Spells are a way to develop self-acceptance and self-worth when the world says we’re not enough.

Developing self-love takes consistent effort over time. Small, regular practices help build up feelings of self-worth.

Like all magic, your intention is key – so read each practice with an open heart. But first, On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your current self-love? note down your rating, as awareness leads to change.

In this article, I’ll share three spells that tap into different elements of self-love.

Wait, wait, a question also irritates some people in mind: Is it okay to love myself?

Spell 1: Mirror Magic

Ever wondered if a mirror could be more than just a reflection of your outer self? This spell, performed during a full moon, aims to reflect not just your appearance but also your inner beauty, strength, and worth. 

Materials Needed

  • Mirror:
  • Candle:
  • Private Space:


  • Wait for a night when the moon is full, creating an environment aligned with the moon’s reflective energy.
  • Locate a private and quiet space where you can sit in front of the mirror undisturbed.
  • Light a candle and position it in front of the mirror.
  • Sit comfortably in front of the mirror and look at your own reflection for a long time in a thoughtful and curious way
  • Take a deep breath and say the following incantation aloud:
  • “Mirror, mirror, on the wall Reflect my beauty, strong and tall Let me see my worth and grace In this mirror, I embrace”
  • Repeat the incantation three times, focusing on your reflection and cultivating feelings of love and acceptance for yourself.

Spell 2: Confidence Boost

This spell uses the sun’s energy to increase self-confidence. By doing it quietly while imagining good things and saying positive words, you can feel its power. The spell transforms how you feel inside to be more confident. It helps you like and believe in yourself from the heart.

Materials Needed

  • Quiet Space
  • Have something gold or the sun as a picture to help focus your mind.
  • Bring pillows, blankets, or a soft chair to relax with during the spell.


  • Choose a calm, cozy spot without noise or interruptions.
  • Do the spell on a Sunday to make it work better by using the sun’s energy linked to confidence.
  • Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Visualize a bright, golden light surrounding you, filling you with confidence and self-love.
  • As you continue to breathe, say the following incantation:

“Sun, sun, shining bright , Fill me with your golden light , Confidence and love, I call to thee In myself, I will believe”

  • Repeat this incantation three times, feeling the warmth and strength of the sun’s energy within you. When you are finished, take a few more deep breaths and open your eyes.

Spell 3: Candle Magic

This spell is best performed on a Friday, in this spell, the candle’s flame acts as a symbol of self-love. As you express appreciation for your positive qualities through reflection, the flame represents the light of love within yourself.

Needed Things

  • Quiet Space
  • Candle
  • Piece of Paper


  • Do the spell on a Friday to connect with its energy of love and caring for yourself.
  • Find a quiet, comfortable spot where you can reflect without distractions.
  • Light a candle and place it in front of you to set a peaceful mood.
  • Take deep breaths and think of 3 things you appreciate about yourself – could be looks, personality or achievements.
  • Write these 3 things down and put the paper by the candle.
  • As you look at the flame, say the following incantation:
  • “Candle, candle, burning bright, illuminate my inner light, with gratitude I embrace, all the beauty in this space.”
  • Repeat this incantation three times, focusing on the flame and feeling grateful for yourself.
  • Blow out the candle when finished.
  • Keep the paper with your affirmations as an ongoing reminder.

These self-love spells can be powerful tools in promoting self-acceptance and confidence. Have you tried any of these spells? Let us know in the comments..!

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